Generally, for none parents, dating has increasingly become a difficult affair. But it seems even more difficult when one is a single mother. Unlike single fathers, who always move on almost immediately things fall apart, single mothers have it difficult. Little wonder then, that, we have numerous cases of women who, sadly, remain single mothers forever. Unfortunately, single women may be sabotaging their relationships. Here’s why:
1. They believe all men only want sex
A good number of single mothers shortchange themselves by adopting this terrible attitude towards men. Just because you had this nasty experience with the father to your child(ren), doesn’t mean all men are ‘beasts’. Thing is, there are many great men out there. Some are genuinely looking for love, regular companionship and honestly desire to form families. Actually, sex is the last thing on their minds. Contrary to popular female belief, to such men, sex is just the icing on the cake; it’s not the cake itself.